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Reconciliation:  At St. Robert, first Reconciliation is usually celebrated in the fourth grade, but parents of second graders are given the option of having their second grader celebrate before First Eucharist.  The book, We Celebrate Reconciliation is given to parents of second graders to use to help prepare their child at home.  All Reconciliation candidates are invited to participate in a parent/child mini-retreat in January.  The dates for first Reconciliation vary from year to year.


 

Going to Confession
 

Rev. Fr. Charles E. Irvin, M.B.A., M.Div., J.D 
 

Why do Catholics speak of "going to confession"? Aren't we supposed to confess
 our sins to God? Why do Catholics have to go to a priest to confess their
 sins?

 The answer is ever so brief: When one "goes" to confession one goes to Jesus
 Christ to confess one's sins. Sacraments (the Great Eastern Churches refer to
 them as The Mysteries) are the actions of the Person who is God the Son
 reaching out to touch us and become one with us through His Mystical Body, in
 the power of the Holy Spirit. Christ in His humanity is present to us and
 encounters us in His body, as St. Paul so clearly teaches, in His risen body,
 in His Mystical Body. He is the same Jesus of Nazareth who becomes, raised
 from the dead in the power of the Holy Spirit, the Christ of faith, the
 Spirit-Filled and glorified Christ whom God has anointed to bring His presence
 and life to us, to live within is, in our own humanity. We go to Him to
 confess our sins when we "go to confession". We encounter Him in His Body; it
 is there we receive His forgiveness.

 Sacraments are the great signs given off by the risen Body of Christ. They are
 "outward and visible signs communicating an inner spiritual grace", instituted
 by Christ to communicate His Holy Spirit into us. Christ's words of
 institution in this case are found in Matthew 16:17-19, Matthew 18:18, and John    20:19-23. Bodies give off signs revealing the mind and heart (the spirit) of
 the person acting within and through those signs. We call it "body language".
 For instance, what is a kiss? It is body language. But try to define one!
 Definitions collapse - a kiss is a "sacrament", something that we can only
 describe, never really define. Only descriptive language is strong enough to
 carry the weight of the Reality within Sacraments; definitional language lacks
 the power to convey their total gravity.


 THE WORK OF CHRIST

 Jesus Christ is continually redeeming humanity both collectively and
 individually. He has not redeemed us, He is redeeming us. He is always in
 being, is-ing, in our humanity now. He is always forgiving, sacrificing, and
 offering Himself to us in His Body, the Church. There, in His Body, He
 forgives us and in turn gathers us into one holy union, presenting us in His
 sacrifice to His Father, thereby making His Father our Father. Sacraments are
 moments when we can enter (actively and personally) by our own free choice
 into the dynamic, on-going and never static activity of Christ returning us to
 His Father in
 His resurrected and Spirit-filled, glorified humanity.

 We can only respond to God's initiative and God's invitation. He loves us
 first, He takes the first initiative. And so He forgives us first. In His
 reaching out to us He has set up the way back to Him. Therefore we cannot
 chart our own way back to God (cf. Genesis 11:1-9, the Tower of Babel). We can
 only respond to His invitation and attend His banquet as He bids us. We are
 not in control - He is. The Church and the Church's Sacraments come from
 above, from God, and they retain their own integrity (and truth) apart from
 any perceptions or decisions on our part. We do not determine for ourselves
 what their reality truly is, God does! Being invited guests to the Lord's
 Messianic Banquet we only discover their reality and inner truth, and humbly
 accept them from Him. The ecclesia, namely the "called out and unified
 assembly", comes from above; it is not the creation of men and women, rather
 it is formed in the faith response of men and women to God's gathering-in Holy
 Spirit. It is when we open ourselves to God that the Holy Spirit assembles us,
 unites us, and causes us to be the Ecclesia, the Church, the Mystical Body of
 Christ. Holy Communion is His work, not ours. If Christ is essential to the
 plan of God, then so is the Church! Without the Ecclesia where is the risen
 Body of Christ? While it is true that God is everywhere it is nevertheless
 true also that the Church is the privileged and sacramental locus of the Risen
 Christ among us.

 SACRED SCRIPTURE

 The Catholic Church grounds the Sacrament of Forgiveness (going to confession)
 in Sacred Scripture. See Matthew 16:13-19 and 18:18-20, also Mark 2:1-17 and
 Luke 7:36-50. St. John's Gospel, as always (c.f. John 11:1-46; John 20:19-23),
 is special. It is theologically highly developed; sometimes it is referred to
 as "The Book of Signs". The "Signs" are the seven great miracles of St. John's
 Gospel. Note the continual connection in John's Gospel between physical
 healing and forgiveness of sin. St. John always sees the physical as revealing
 the spiritual. And, in John, Christ's great ministry is that of
 reconciliation. Read John 11:1-46, then read John 20:19- 23. In John's Gospel,
 forgiveness, deliverance, healing, freedom, and life are all inter-connected
 realities. The "baptism for the remission of sins" is our immersion into the
 death/resurrection event of Jesus Christ. All sacraments emerge out of this
 "baptism" and are constituted by the events of Holy Thursday, Good Friday, and
 Easter Sunday. Those three sacred days (the Sacred Triduum) constitute the
 "hour" He spoke of at Cana, the "baptism" he longed to be baptized with. In
 them He transmits over into us the Divine Life and Divine Power that is His,
 His power over life and death, redemption and sin. Again, see John 20:19-23.

 So why must we go to the Church to confess our sins? Why not confess directly
 to God? Why must we confess and acknowledge our sins and/or sinfulness to a
 priest? Because scripture bids us to! And because Christ has empowered and
 commissioned his priests to do so. They are ordained to carry on His work, the
 ministry of reconciliation and the work of our redemption.

 Baptism remains the basic and fundamental sacrament of repentance, conversion
 and reconciliation with God. It constitutes us in the essential ministry of
 the Church, namely the ministry of reconciliation (Christ's fundamental
 mission). But what happens to those who sin, and repeatedly sin, after being
 baptized? How does the Lord, living and working in His Mystical Body the
 Church, relate to them?

 THE EARLY CHURCH

 The big problem of the Early Church was: What do we do with someone who has
 "left" the community via apostasy, open adultery, murder, or any other serious
 and open rejection of the Christian way of living? Re-baptism was (and is
 today) impossible since Christ's covenant commitment made through the Church
 in baptism always remains in force. One can never be "un-baptized"; we can
 never undo God's covenant commitment to us.

 The Sacrament of Reconciliation was given to the one baptized (and who had
 subsequently, in sin, left the Faith Community) in order to return him or her
 to the Source of power and holiness, namely Christ's Holy Spirit, to free him
 or her from a world of fear, anxiety, suspicion, hate, division and alienation
 from God. There developed, even in the earliest time of the Apostolic Church,
 a ceremony of public penance followed by a ceremony of reconciliation
 ministered by a Bishop. This followed a LONG (40 days) probationary period of
 public penance that demonstrated a genuine sincerity in the penitent.
 Gradually the practice evolved into going to the Bishop privately to receive
 reconciliation with the Community through his mediatorship. The early
 Christians understood that true conversion was a long and difficult process,
 one that required the Spirit of the Body of Christ in order to sustain and
 encourage the penitent. God offers, we respond. Hundreds upon hundreds of
 years later the Irish monks, who re-evangelized Barbarian Europe of the Dark
 Ages, introduced their own monastic penitential practices which included lists
 of sins connected with appropriate lists of penances commensurate with the
 degrees of the seriousness of the listed sins! This outraged the Frankish
 bishops who called a Council to denounce this "novel practice" of the Irish
 that so de-formed (they thought) the previous and commonly shared practices
 associated with the Sacrament of Reconciliation, those prior to the
 innovations of "those Irish monks." Nevertheless, frequent confession of sins
 remained the normative practice down to our times.

 THE MINISTRY OF RECONCILIATION

 The fundamental nature of the Sacrament of Forgiveness is found in 2
 Corinthians 5:18. For this sacrament is the celebration of the reconciliation
 between the individual repentant sinner with Christ living and working through
 His Body, the Church, and with God in Christ. The Parable of the Prodigal Son
 is the paradigm, the critical elements being open admission and action, a
 "going to" confession in order to receive forgiveness and reconciliation.

 In our human condition there is always a residual remainder of unredemption
 within each one of us, no matter how much we may try to deny it! Who can
 honestly claim that he is without sin? The truth is that deathbed confessions
 are still occurring even though moderns have tried to do away with the idea of
 sin and punishment for sin. We need to do works of penance in order to bring
 light in the darkness, vision in confusion, love in hate, peace in anxiety,
 and union in disunion. Conversion means "moving from one version of living to
 another version." We are talking here more about a way of life than about
 isolated and individual acts. Medieval Monks became a class of penitents for
 the sake of all of humanity; they set themselves to the task of calling down
 the power of God's Spirit into the whole vast and complex network of our
 sin-full human relationships and social order. The monastery was supposed to
 be a microcosm of the macrocosm that is the Kingdom. The monks were supposed  to be a model or a paradigm of the way people should relate to one another as well as being a paradigm of the entire social and economic order in the world around them.

 Theological Note: God's forgiveness comes first, our repentance follows. God
 offers, we respond; God proposes, man disposes. Why? Because if a person truly
 repents deep within his or her heart it is because he or she has hope that
 change is possible. This hope comes from God; from God's pre-existing gift (or
 grace) of forgiveness. (Read again, now, the Parable of the Prodigal Son in
 Luke 15:11-32). God's pre-existent forgiveness makes possible human
 repentance. We can love God only because He loves us first!

 The act of "going to confession", specifically the priest's giving of
 sacramental absolution, gives us the concrete and experienced assurance of
 God's saving action in our time, in our condition, and "where we're at". Jesus
 Christ acts through His Body, the Church, not to change His Father's mind, but
 rather to change our minds by revealing to us His saving love. When we are in
 sin we are in a state of confusion, of self doubt, and lack the fullness of
 freedom because of our insecurity about our selves, particularly in terms of
 our relationship with God. When we live in a deadly (mortal) state of sin;
 spiritual death has its grip on us and we need resurrection. (Read now in
 John's Gospel, Chapter 20, the first activity of Jesus Christ when He rose
 from the dead).

 THE "HOW TO"

 How does one "go to confession"? What is the basic action? The penitent
 presents himself to a priest (or bishop) of the Church to receive the action
 of God's forgiveness through the saving work of Christ ministering to us
 through His Body. The penitent acknowledges his or her sins specifically and
 admits his or her need for reconciliation and penance. Reconciliation with the
 Body of Christ IS reconciliation with Christ acting through His Apostles
 (those in Holy Orders) upon whom His Spirit rests. Such a sign effects what it
 signifies - the symbol becomes the reality (which is true for all of the
 Sacraments!).


 But forgiveness is effective only to the degree that the prodigal, the
 penitent, acknowledges a need to return to the Father's house, change his our
 her way of living (conversion) and thereupon live in that set of relationships
 present in the household of the Father.

 One final theological note: Read again the Raising of Lazarus (John 11:1-46)
 and note that forgiveness, deliverance, healing, freedom and new life are all
 inter-connected realities. The "Baptism for the remission of sins" is
 immersion into the death-resurrection event of Jesus Christ. All Sacraments
 emerge out of the events and works of Christ in Holy Thursday, Good Friday,
 Easter Sunday, and Pentecost, the sum being called "The Paschal Mystery". For
 that is Christ's "hour", the "baptism" He longed for, and the transmission of
 His power into His Body, the Church. Another definition of the Church is that
 she is the continuation of the Christ event down through human time and
 history. And it is in her that we find the fullness of redemption and the
 forgiveness of our sins.

 
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